When Is It the Right Time for a New Marriage After Loss?

Let’s explore how to determine if you're emotionally ready for a new marriage after widowhood or widowerhood.

When you feel ready to date, you will know it. That said, make no important decisions or commitments for one year after the funeral -- and that includes remarrying to avoid being lonely. Rushing into marriage to solve loneliness issues isn’t fair to your new spouse or even to yourself.

Look for signs that you've adequately processed your grief, can comfortably talk about your deceased spouse without overwhelming sadness, feel positive about the future, are open to new relationships without feeling like you're replacing your former partner, and have a sense of personal stability and self-worth, even without a partner; if you have doubts, consider seeking professional guidance from a therapist.

Jeanne Gormick